What are friends with benefits? Nothing special or out of the ordinary. They are just regular close friends. With whom you sometimes have sex. Nowadays the concept of friends with benefits has become very common. If you are a fan of english series like Sex and the City and Grey's Anatomy, you know what I am talking about. Two people are real good friends who are there for each other. Who help each other out, lend a shoulder to cry on. And then they have casual sex. Which by the way is a term that I dont understand. How is sex casual? You are getting naked in front of a person. You are are letting them touch your private parts, do things to you which are very personal. Oh but its all very casual!??? Seriously? And even if you are friends with someone with whom you have sex, how do you not develop feelings for them?
So to all the people out there who have friends and enjoy benefits with them, I wanna know how do you maintain it? How do you not develop feelings for someone with who you share your body? Are you friends, lovers or just plain confused and horny? :P No offense to anyone. Til the next post, keep it safe people!
OMG, i am not sure if is hould be responding to it.... still here goes.
ReplyDelete"You are getting naked in front of a person. You are are letting them touch your private parts, do things to you which are very personal.", first of all its mutual, its not a one sided game.
As for the concept of Friends with benifits, thats cool. Yes, you do develop a relation between the person you are having sex with. In other words you do have a soft spot towards that person. Pesronally speaking, I do want him for life, but because there is a far more powerful relationship between us "Friendship", this attraction i feel is overlooked. But yes i do crave for my friends with special benefits, because sex is emotional and passionate, and if you have conneced to that person in an emotional level, then you dont bother what ever name you call the relationship as long as you remain in contact.
I have absloutely not a clue to what i ve just written, but i am not gonna rewrite it. In simple terms just because two friends had sex dosent mean that that life stops. Just consider that sex added that extra edge/boost to your friendship. Sex is not a crime or a bad thing, which ever angle you look at it